Setting boundaries and making it clear in terms of what you will and won’t settle for is perfectly ok. When you set boundaries, people know what you won’t accept and they know that you mean business. Often times we end up giving too much of ourselves to the point where we’re unable to emotionally tend to our own needs. Love you enough to say “No” sometimes. It’s ok, they will find someone else to do it or figure out a different way; either way don’t let that responsibility be placed in your lap.